I know what it feels like: when life suddenly no longer follows the plan. When a twist
of fate throws us off course. When you ask yourself, “Why me?”
I’ve asked myself that question many times.
Today, I know: fate doesn’t ask questions—it offers opportunities. And it’s up to us to recognize them.
I want to share with you what helped me not only accept my fate but master it. These are three exclusive tips that guided me on my journey—perhaps they will support you too.
1. Recognize Pain as a Teacher
The first and hardest step: accepting the pain. For many years, I fought my feelings. I thought being strong meant feeling nothing. Today, I know: strength means feeling everything—and continuing anyway.
I’ve learned to listen to the pain. Not to numb it, not to ignore it. Instead, to ask: what are you trying to tell me? Behind every suffering is a message. Sometimes it’s hard to decipher. But it’s there—like a key to a new door.
2. Stay Authentic – Even When It’s Uncomfortable
After a blow of fate, we often tend to pretend. We put on masks to “function.” I did the same. But eventually, I felt like a stranger in my own skin. I was losing myself.
My turning point came when I began to be “me” again—with all the cracks, weaknesses, and quirks. Authenticity is an act of rebellion against society’s “how one should be.” It’s a brave step—but it leads to inner freedom.
3. Turn Your Story into a Vision
Each of us has a story. But we decide how it continues. At one point I asked myself: “What if I don’t just want to survive my life, but shape it?” And I began to develop a vision. Not despite my hardships—but because of them.
I imagined what my life could look like if I had the courage to start fresh. That thought was like a spark. And from that spark grew a fire. Today, I stand here, write, speak, and inspire—because I no longer hide my story, but use it as a tool.
My Message to You
You are not alone. Every person carries their cracks, their wounds. But also: their strength. It’s never too late to take the wheel and consciously shape your own destiny.
About the Author
Eva Kreuzpaintner captivates with her authentic, diary-like style, turning personal experiences into moving narratives. In Regina Goes Her Way – Hope, she sensitively tells of life’s challenges and creates powerful, universal stories.
You can read more about her experiences on Eva’s website: www.evakreuzpaintner.de
