As Women’s History Month unfolds, I find myself contemplating the extraordinary women who have shaped my personal journey. Guided by the timeless African proverb, “it takes a village to raise a child,” I have come to firmly believe in the transformative power of a supportive community.
The Influence of a Strong Village
During my formative years, I had the privilege of witnessing the unwavering strength of my mother’s support system. Balancing her nursing aspirations with the responsibilities of raising three children alongside my father, she exemplified resilience and determination. Not content with acquiring the title of a licensed practical nurse (LPN), she embarked on a journey towards a master’s degree while fulfilling her duties in the operating room. I would often sit at the dining room table, engrossed in my own homework, as she diligently penned papers and prepared for exams. This routine became our shared experience from elementary to high school, shaping my own work ethic and inspiring me to overcome challenges. Observing her ability to excel in education, nurture a happy family life, and cultivate a successful career, I drew strength in knowing that I too could conquer any obstacles that came my way.
The Power of a Supportive Village
Amidst my mother’s remarkable journey, there were times when she leaned on the assistance of her close-knit village. Friends readily offered their support, extending a helping hand not only to her but also to me. Whether it was covering carpool duties or delivering warm meals, their presence symbolized the essence of true friendship and community.
A Tribe of Strong, Caring Women
Today, I am fortunate to be surrounded by a tribe of remarkable women—strong, caring, and phenomenal individuals. This diverse group understands the significance of offering words of encouragement during challenging moments, checking in with a thoughtful phone call, celebrating significant milestones such as our children’s entry into college, and surprising gestures like care packages when unexpected circumstances arise. They recognize that solidarity and unwavering support are crucial when facing adversity. A monthly girls’ night serves as a cherished tradition, providing us with an opportunity to rejuvenate and bond. The beauty of this community is that our children also reap the benefits, witnessing firsthand the power of collective support. As they attend events, the resounding cheers from our collective group grow louder, leaving an indelible mark on their hearts.
Extending Support Beyond Borders
At times, circumstances may prevent us from being present at our loved ones’ special events. However, our village exhibits a profound commitment to one another. When one of us cannot attend an important occasion, the others step in, ensuring that our loved ones receive the support and presence they deserve. It is through these acts of compassion and selflessness that the true strength of our village shines.
Professional Mentors: Guiding Lights
In addition to my personal support system, I have been fortunate to encounter several professional female mentors who have played a pivotal role in shaping my career trajectory. These women have defied gender norms and navigated male-dominated spaces with unwavering confidence. I have witnessed them gracefully handling situations where flowers were offered as apologies for business mishaps, only to be promptly returned, refusing to accept superficial gestures. I have also observed moments where experienced female leaders were subjected to condescending explanations of their own job responsibilities—an unfortunate display of mansplaining. Each encounter has provided invaluable insights, allowing me to cultivate grace under pressure and apply these lessons to my own professional journey.
Passing on the Torch of Resilience
As of late, I find myself in a new phase of life, observing my daughter as she navigates her initial years of college. Her effortless stride in assuming new responsibilities stems from a deep-rooted sense of confidence, instilled in her by the remarkable women in our lives. Children emulate their surroundings and look to us for guidance on forming strong bonds and facing life’s challenges. As she witnesses the strength and support within our village, she recognizes that she too will be nurtured by this community.
A Lasting Impact
These women—my mother, daughter, and professional mentors—are not merely figures in my personal history; they are the very foundation upon which my growth and resilience stand. Their influence transcends their own awareness, leaving an indelible mark on my journey.
Conclusion: Celebrating Our Collective Impact
While it is unlikely that my name will be etched in the annals of history, I hope that as we flip through photographs or reminisce during celebratory occasions, we collectively acknowledge the profound impact we have had on each other’s personal narratives. The power of community, resilience, and the unwavering support of remarkable women should never be underestimated. Together, we have woven a tapestry of strength and inspiration that will continue to shape the lives of future generations.
